If it's a bad thing to want, mark me down as a bad person. Honestly, I seriously thought and hoped that the fact that all we are to each other is a stream of text would get rid of all this gender baggage. Because yes, I'm an RPGer and a fanfic writer, and I think they're both awesome and equally fun. And actually I wanted just one area of life where I wasn't judged by my gender, thank you very much! Maybe I am odd (or even GenderQueer), but I've always wanted to be able to engage with people as just people, and not have to feel yet again excluded because I'm both, or neither, or whatever.

So thank you!