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Etrangere ([personal profile] salinea) wrote2007-10-17 10:17 am

Gender of writing, Chick Lit and Fantasy

There's a whole discussion that happened last week on Ran's Board which my friends from there most probably know all about, but about which I'd be curious to have some other opinions. (BTW, I use the nickname "Stranger" in those forums).

It all started with a post about Kushner's novel Priviledge of the Sword started by Pat, who beyond his activity on that forum also manages a Fantasy blog, which I think has a pretty good reputation.

Anyway, one of the thing that caught my eye was that Pat, among other things, called Priviledge of the Sword "chick lit through and through". Other people gave good or bad opinions about that novel or Kushner's novels generally speaking. Ran, notably, denied that it was Chick Lit, whereas Calibandar called it "the girliest books I've laid my hands on in recent years".

Discussions about the "male-ness" or the "girly-ness" of specific books is something I have seen often, and which I may have sometimes made use of myself, even though I don't like it, to refer to some hard-to-define aesthetics. So I started a thread about that subject, using Pat's thread as an example, in which I asked a lot of questions to people : Chick Lit, What is it? Why isn't there any Boy's Lit?

I had two agendas with this thread : pointing out the sexism in calling some books Chick Lit in order to dismiss their quality, and questionning which specific images and idiosyncracies were associated with which gender and why. The thread saw much more discussions about the first point, both in agreement and disagreement, although some people did good effort to answer my second point as well. The discussion grew in some points somewhat heated and even wanky, but wasn't uninteresting.

A certain amount of people did agree that "Chick Lit" described a specific genre of book about female protagonists in urban, modern setting with an irreverant tone and some sexual situations, that such a genre had nothing to do with Kushner's writing. Some people also agreed that Chick Lit wasn't a good name for such a genre because it described what kind of market the genre is aimed at instead of the content of the books; and because it can cause confusion about other books, like Kushner's. Although lots of people still disagreed about that, so I'd hardly call it a consensus.

Last part of this little debate, Pat's eventually posted his final review of Priviledge of the Sword at his blog yesterday. Unsurprizingly, he was still mostly negative about it, but also persisted in calling it "Fantasy chick lit" and "one of the 'girliest' novels [he's] ever read", moreover he extrapolated this description by saying :

"There's a very "girly" approach to the narrative. It focuses on undying/forbidden love, corny romance, flowers, jewelry, gowns, fabrics, and an inordinate amount of emo moments. For crying out loud, the characters shed more tears in this book than bridesmaids at a wedding! There is only so much crying one can take, after all. In addition, the emo male characters are not authentic."

You'd think he was talking about about badfanfics ^^ I'm not entirely surprised by this reading because earlier at Ran's Board, I'd seen ErrantBard, who appeared quite sane otherwise, say about Swordspoint :

what I would say classify it as "chick-lit" in my mind is, from memory:
  • Flowers and effeminate looking men with open shirts on the cover, first
  • Prominence of homosexuality in the relationships
  • Pure love
  • Invincible yet sensible, fragile, honourable hero.
  • Insufferable whiny useless support characters you're supposed to pity rather than wish dead, for some reason
  • A plot revolving around the feelings some people have for each other.


  • A number of which terms had me raise my eyebrow in regard of Swordspoint. But hey! People read books are see different things in it. It happens.

    It makes sense that a certain lack of sensitivity about specific genres that one doesn't like mean that one blurs the distinction between those genres. Thus romance, mannerpunk, and Chich Lit elements are all confused and equally dismissed as if they were equivalent although to anyone looking into those seriously it's obvious they're very far from being the same. The fact that all these different elements are, for some reason, associated with female taste and female writing is of course what makes such confusion problematic and sexist.

    The thing that really makes me angry there is that several people as well as Pat have defended their use of the term by saying "what is so bad about works written by women that cater to what women want to read?" even though they're very obviously using the word "Chick Lit" or "girly" to dismiss and criticize a specific type of writing : "corny romance", "inordinate amount of emo moments", "the emo male characters are not authentic."
    That's not the description of a genre of writing that one doesn't like but that's still considered as legit. That's a description of bad writing, through and through. A bad writing that is typified as female.

    Now, while I'm still infuriated about the structural sexism of such use of terms, I'm also still curious about which elements are associated with specific genders and why.
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:21 pm (UTC)(link)
    yes you're right. Modern Urban Comedy does describe it well.

    because for some reasons,"chick lit" as a genre description gets more misappropriated than the respective genre for "male" readers
    Gee. I wonder why.
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
    Did anyone ever make experience of having books read to people, and having them say whether they thought the writer was male or female?

    Yeah, of course one would never describe Eragon as Chick Lit!

    I mean, how many fantasy books do you know that don't have any romance elements? I don't know any. However if the fantasy novel happens to be written by a woman, and to be written from the PoV of a female character, suddenly the romance is overbearing, even if there's not more of it than in random novel written by a male.

    [identity profile] laurus-nobilis.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:25 pm (UTC)(link)
    That's not the description of a genre of writing that one doesn't like but that's still considered as legit. That's a description of bad writing, through and through. A bad writing that is typified as female.
    Ugh. Exactly. It's not just literature, though - it's the same with Chick Flicks.

    That one makes me even angrier, because there's always someone saying they're unrealistic (duh) and therefore horrible "examples" for women because their romantic life won't be the same as in the movies. Um. What? We do know it's fiction, world, we really do. We know they're full of unrealistic genre conventions. No one says action movies make men think they have to be just like an Action Hero, so why do people assume that women expect their real life to play out just like in a Meg Ryan movie? We're not stupid. *fumes*

    ... and, uh, I got on a bit of a tangent there. ^_^U

    [identity profile] koyotesdaughter.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:25 pm (UTC)(link)
    oh, and "the emo male characters are not authentic?" What is that supposed to mean? Were all the emo characters male? Were the emo female characters completely authentic? Does Pat think the female mind to be such a foreign thing that he feels he's unable to judge the authenticity of the emo female characters? Does Pat have so little actual experience with women that he forms his opinions on how they think and behave from trite fantasy that he's otherwise dismissive of?

    Seriously. WTF.
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:26 pm (UTC)(link)
    I'm betting on the feedback loop.
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:30 pm (UTC)(link)
    If there's one thing I regret it's of having been too nice to Pat in the threads given his stubborn dismissing attitude. He's not even trying to listen, he acts as if all criticism we are making are because we're angry thta he didn't like the book. WTF?

    All I'll say is that as a writer (since he decided to throw that phrase around in a response to Elio) he should recognize the enormous power of word choice
    That's a very good point.

    I'm still not even sure what he meant by that, after reading the review and all the responses
    lol, yes. It's not exactly very descriptive.
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:31 pm (UTC)(link)
    all female characters are naturally emo, of course! and weep all the time! And weeping is a sure sign of Chick Lit!

    Wait, does that mean that the Prince of Nothing is Chick Lit?
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
    yeah, exactly :(
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:34 pm (UTC)(link)
    Spot on.

    I don't think he was being sexist intentionnally. The fact that he's still unwilling to understand - or even listen - to the pointsn people made to that and kept on with the sexist behaviour makes him intentionnally sexist.
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    [identity profile] scriva.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:38 pm (UTC)(link)
    I told you before. Men like Akka, Proyas,(others?)and even Cnaiür make it Chick Lit. Fluid sexuality and emo (especially Akka and Cnaiür).

    ^^
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
    and weeping! Especially Cnaïr and Akka! Cnaïur is so emo, you'd think he'd been written by a woman. Maybe Bakker's sekreetly a woman?

    [identity profile] mnemosyne-1.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
    A number of which terms had me raise my eyebrow in regard of Swordspoint. But hey! People read books are see different things in it. It happens.

    True... but I have to say I'm a bit surprised at ErrantBard's commentary on Swordspoint. I didn't see most of that at all... In fact, it felt a bit like Dumas' writing, with the mixture of swordplay, sex and politics. It just happened to have a homosexual couple as the lead couple (and yeah, don't get me started about the implied homophobia of ErrantBard's comment). But this probably isn't the time or place for literary analysis. *g*

    I find myself even more offended at Pat's comment that Privilege is "girly fantasy". Because hey, I'm a girl and... I hated the book. So according to his generalization, am I not girly? I am a manly girl or simply an especially enlightened female?

    The thought that good writing = male and bad writing = female is infuriating. Either you liked the book or you didn't - why is gender assignment necessary? I sincerely doubt Pat would have said the same things had the author been male.

    I'm also still curious about which elements are associated with specific genders and why.

    I think generally the implication is that writing designed for women is mediocre at best. I've seen more than a few comments that say, "It's a good book... for that genre (usually meaning chick lit or a genre that people believe mostly appeals to women)."

    I think I'm also bothered by the idea that if a man gets emotional in a book, it's not authentic. Men are not made from one mold; they have different emotional capacities and reactions. Some men cry a lot and are very "emo", as the reviewer put it; some men never cry. Some women cry constantly; others never cry. One is not better than the other, nor is one more authentic than the other. Am I a bad female because I rarely weep? Because I tend to act rationally and logically the majority of the time? Does this mean I'm acting like a male? No, it means I'm acting like myself.

    Stereotypically "female" book elements:

    - an overly emotional hero/heroine (usually the latter. rarely do heroes seem to be in touch with their emotions)

    - a romance or established relationship, which may or may not go through turmoil

    Stereotypically "male" book elements:

    - lots of action, usually featuring a hero with a stoic exterior

    - the hero is often surrounded by one or more sexy women who fall all over him (heterosexual relationships only)

    [identity profile] indigestible.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:51 pm (UTC)(link)
    Of course there isn't Boy Lit, things written by men, for men, about men are for everybody! They're universal and neutral. It's that weird stuff with female protagonists and female authors that's "just for girls." Which is to say, I don't think Chick Lit is a problematic term if it's essentially short-hand for "modern, urban romance novel," but using it to disparage a fantasy novel is kind of like reading a detective novel and then saying "this was so unrealistic and poorly written, it was like reading a fantasy novel." It's a slam on the genre as a whole, and it's lazy reviewing besides. If you're going to write a review, tell me what you didn't like, don't just write it off as "girly" and feign wonderment when people call you a sexist.

    [identity profile] metzhead.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:59 pm (UTC)(link)
    are you itchin fer a fight? cuz I used to rassle bears fer a livin.

    big ones.

    [identity profile] rockstarwookie.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 01:59 pm (UTC)(link)
    I cant say for sure if it's influenced by cultural stereotypes, not really having a proper knowledge of the whole thing, but the cultural stereotype seems likely from my vantage point.

    When I first saw that thread last week or the week before, the only parallel that jumped to my mind was when people dismiss a work as being only read by "teenage boys in their bedrooms". Thing is, my experience is that it's Fantasy that's dismissed this way, and well, that doesn't really hold a whole lot of water on a board dedicated to a Fantasy series in a discussion involving a whole load of female fans of Fantasy :)

    I didn't mention the "teenage boys" thing in the thread, because I was afraid that it was too much of a Red Herring, and I'm still not sure that it isn't. After all, the "girly" accusation is clearly to do with gender, where as "teenage boys in their bedrooms" refers to both gender and immaturity.

    obviously no man would want to read something like that
    There's a point in there to do with gender roles in society, i think.
    A thought: Calling it "chick lit" could be observing a truth in that it's only read by women (in general), and that disparity doesn't have much to do with its quality, but because of sexism in society (like that quote from The Cement Garden about it being ok for girls to wear jeans, but it's considered degrading for a man to wear a dress.
    Does that sound likely?
    If so, it could explain where people like Pat are coming from when they use the term (and also why people get so up in arms when the "PC crowd" criticise it - because they think it's just observing a truth and the critics are just getting their knickers in a twist), but that doesn't stop it from being harmful for the exact reason you give earlier (about it being a "very small step" between the intended meaning and the sexist implication).
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:03 pm (UTC)(link)
    female or male bears? ^_^

    Either way, bring it on :D
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:05 pm (UTC)(link)
    I don't think that Chick Lit is good for "modern, urban romance novel" because people being people they were going to misuse the term sooner or later. As soon as you don't describe things by content but by destined readership it was doomed to happen :(

    And yes, it's a pretty sucky review ^^

    [identity profile] koyotesdaughter.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:08 pm (UTC)(link)
    the "girly" accusation is clearly to do with gender, where as "teenage boys in their bedrooms" refers to both gender and immaturity

    I think that the use of "girly" and "boy[ish]" in these generalizations rather than "womanly" and "manly" is really what's telling of the immaturity levels. I'm not sure that "teenage" and "bedroom" add much to the generalization, unless there's a much larger societal group of teenage boys getting all hot and bothered over Gandalf than I would have guessed.

    More tellingly, the use of "girly" alone versus "teenage boys" implies that the female audience will always be immature, whereas the male audience outgrows such pulp reading tastes.

    [identity profile] miss-sand.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:08 pm (UTC)(link)
    38 commentaires, je n'ai pas envie de chercher si cela t'a déjà été signalé :

    "the girl cooties theory of literature" http://www.sff.net/paradise/girlcooties.htm

    A cette occasion, j'ai appris l'expression "girl cooties", dont on m'a donné la définition suivante :
    Les "Girl Cooties", littéralement les poux qu'on risque d'attraper en jouant avec les petites filles, désignent la crainte des petits garçons face à la différence mystérieuse de ces dernières, avec en sous-entendu, le risque d'une 'contamination' de leur virilité. Appliquée à un adulte (homme ou femme, d'ailleurs), cette expression désigne une attitude de distance prudente vis à vis de valeurs jugées réservées au sexe faible, et notamment la gamme des émotions qui court du romantisme au sentimentalisme.
    (Je ne garantie pas la fiabilité de cette définition.)

    Ca me parait un éclairage supplémentaire intéressant pour ton propos ^^

    [identity profile] rockstarwookie.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:09 pm (UTC)(link)
    I don't know Pat other than having noted that a few people that I respect appear to respect him.
    I think the term "feeding right into it" is a good one for this. Intentions aside, the implication that "girly" means "bad" is right there in what he said, and when that was pointed out to him, he could have easily just gone "I don't need to say this" and taken it out.

    The fact that he wrote it on the review on his website (and added in a paraphrase of what Calibander said) is what makes me think he got defensive and stubborn about the thing [pompous jackhole, as you say :)]

    This is all about the origin of this specific case though, and it's probably more interesting to talk about the perception "girly" in a more general/wider sense, so I'll leave it at that :)
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:11 pm (UTC)(link)
    True... but I have to say I'm a bit surprised at ErrantBard's commentary on Swordspoint. I didn't see most of that at all...
    Me either. To ErrantBard's credit, he said later in my discussion with him that he got convinced by my arguments against using "Chick Lit" as a category and about how sexist it ended up being. But it's still weird to see the different readings that people may have of a book.

    The thought that good writing = male and bad writing = female is infuriating. Either you liked the book or you didn't - why is gender assignment necessary? I sincerely doubt Pat would have said the same things had the author been male.
    YES! And of course not! Have you seen how outraged he was when I called Guy Gavriel Kay's writing (who's very flowery and lyrical, with lots of "emo" characters to use Pat's words) "Chick Lit"?

    And yes to most everything you said. Thanks for your comment.
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    [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
    Non seulement je connaissais, mais j'ai utilisé cette expression a un endroit ^^

    [identity profile] rockstarwookie.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
    I'm not sure that "teenage" and "bedroom" add much to the generalization, unless there's a much larger societal group of teenage boys getting all hot and bothered over Gandalf than I would have guessed.
    It probably doesn't, except that's the way the generalisation is used whenever I've encountered it.

    I think it implies that people who use this generalisation have the perception that all Fantasy is about sexual fantasising with descriptions of fit women in skimpy outfits and big muscle-bound Heroic men having their way with them.

    I had several embarrassing moments as a teenager after I replied to someone who asked me what I was reading and seeing them make incorrect assumptions about me.

    [identity profile] miss-sand.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:20 pm (UTC)(link)
    J'ai lu vite ^^

    [identity profile] rockstarwookie.livejournal.com 2007-10-17 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
    Indeed.
    I was wrong to say "just lazy criticism", that's dismissive of the problem and I didn't mean to do that.

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