Depends on what, precisely, the original poster meant. The idea of forcing conformity? That zie feels persecuted?

Wikipedia puts the slang definition as "A person considered unfairly oppressive or needlessly strict" - what other words fit that?

Sorry, that wasn't meant to put it all on you, or to imply I didn't think there were any. Despot, tyrant, fascist*, autocrat, authoritarian....


*could have its own problems.