I love both characters, they're both incredibly hot, and they're currently canon so I kind of wish I could just enjoy them together but instead I keep wondering: "but what do they see in each other" and be puzzled.

Exactly. So glad it's not just me!

And yeah, it's not like Rogue can't hold her own, but the way he treats her just doesn't work for me in the context of a romantic relationship. Not to mention that I've never seen him speak to another lover like that.