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Also, what exactly would you put behind "unhealthy"? Is there some kinds of unhealthy which you are willing to ship and others which you draw the lines at (which ones, and why)? Don't hesitate to give some examples!

ETA: this is mostly due to the fact that some of the comments on this post by [livejournal.com profile] meganbmoore made me wonder if I was the only one.

Date: 25 September 2008 11:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] indigestible.livejournal.com
A couple others have said this, but it drives me crazy when either the creator or the fans want to portray the relationship as wonderful and I perceive it at as completely dysfunctional. Relatedly, it bothers me most when this happens and the dysfunction is completely banal, that is, if it makes me think "I know women who have these kinds of relationships, I think they are damaging, and I wish you'd all stop romanticizing them." If people want to write Snape/Harry all fluffy, that weirds me out, but it doesn't make me want to claw my eyes out, because "magical boy screws his teacher who has unresolved issues with his parents" doesn't tie in to my actual life in any way.

Date: 25 September 2008 11:22 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] etrangere.livejournal.com
Relatedly, it bothers me most when this happens and the dysfunction is completely banal
I can see how that could be a factor.

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